My youngest child has autism. He was officially diagnosed 6 1/2 years ago. Like many parents, I KNEW something was not right with our youngest child. He was not progressing and developing like my older 2 children. He was exhibiting the signs of autism I had read about in Parenting magazines and books. While I was slowly coming to the realization of the challenges that were ahead, my toughest challenge was getting a confirmed diagnosis.
What happens when you get the “Official” diagnosis?? Well, if you are normal, you start to google everything you can about autism and how to fix it. You probably buy the Jenny McCarthy book(s) that talk about her son. You might join a few Yahoo groups to find comfort in numbers. You can cry, yell, feel sorry for yourself, drink too much one night, and just basically try to do anything to wake yourself up from this nightmare.
I did all those things. None of them worked and a few of them left me feeling like a truck ran over me. When I realized that the answers did not lie with Yahoo groups or Google (Jenny McCarthy too), the real work began. I have been working with different doctors, teachers, and mentors for 6 years to try and find the best treatment plan for our son. It has not been easy and the work will never end.
If you have a child diagnosed with autism, the best thing to do is find someone who is on the same journey as you. The news reports 1 in 88 children is diagnosed on the spectrum. If that number is true it will not be difficult to find another family in the same situation. Find a family that is using different ideas for treating autism. I recommend staying away from those who advocate no vaccinations and ADD or ADHD medications. Our son is on a Gluten, Dairy (I know the irony :-)), Soy, Nuts, Egg, and Legume free diet. He also takes supplements each day to make up for those important vitamins and minerals he lacks. Is everyday great?? NO. But it is better than him screaming ALL day. As I said, it is a journey and it is paved with lots of ups and downs. You just need to ride out the lows to get to the highs.